This article in essence is to help married couples to have more fun in their sex life and to encourage creativity in the bedroom
God created sex for marriage. It is good…when we, as married couples, allow ourselves to experience one another in a spirit of generosity.
What’s special about sex is not that the moment ‘sneaks up’ on us but that it is a sincere and thoughtful expression of our love and desire for our mate. Sex is the most apparent manifestation of two becoming one.
Below are 10 steps that married couples can use to progressively heighten arousal and to slowly build anticipation as they make love.
1. Slow dance together.
2. Kiss deeply, slowly.
3. Slowly undress one another.
4. Take a bubble bath or shower together.
5. Use a sensuous body oil to give each other an erotic massage.
6. Take turns kissing each other on every part of one another’s naked bodies.
7. Commit to doing at least two foreplay activities each.
8. Use no fewer than 4 sex positions, including 1 you haven’t done before (or in a while).
9. Make sure to use your hands whenever you can to caress and enhance you mate’s pleasure as you make love.
10. Talk to each other while you are making love. Say “I love you.” Compliment each other. It is good to describe how it feels, looks or sounds. Share what you want to give to or receive from your mate, sexually. Be descriptive and responsive!
There are as many variations to the above and other ideas as there are stars. Try making love in a different room. Rent a hotel room, Play a romantic board game. Whatever you decide to do, don’t treat sex like a chore. It is so much more.
If you have any tested ideas that will make sex life much fun for couples please share in your comment